Today I found myself in a hair salon talking about George Clooney. Now that is the life.
I’m on Christmas vacation still, technically, although I have to say there’s little about life with a toddler that qualifies as a vacation. So today I sent the young pup to daycare and took a day to myself. Full of guilt, but also knowing how mentally necessary it was, I spent 6.5 hours alone. During that time I did the following: Went to see Up in the Air. Sat (!) and read (!) the new Barbara Kingsolver book. And finally, after 2.5 years, got my hair cut.
Oh bliss.
On the way to and from the movie, I of course scanned. Actually, that’s a lie. After my matinee, fully relaxed, meandering homeward in the sun, with the heat cranked on high, I left the radio on an Easy Listening station.
I am always alarmed when these stations provide so many wonderful songs in a row. Same goes for the Easy Listening section in any music store. Apparently I’m Easy … like Sunday morning. (No smart remarks, TGOTS.)
Anyhow I heard any number of songs that would make good fodder for posts, and my mind was all over the place. But since I’ve already rambled on too long, I’ll keep it short: When I hear “Bette Davis Eyes,” I think Kim Carnes, who in my head looks like Kim Basinger, and then I think of Kim Cattrall, and then I think of Betty from the Archie comics, and they all roll into this one lovely woman with long blonde hair, and then I refocus and remember we’re talking about Bette Davis here, all dark-haired and squinchy.
That’s about as deep as it gets, which was fine for this sunny day off.
We’re only two days back from our Christmas trip to Vermont. As predicted in my earlier post, many things about that trip went according to a certain routine. But much of the music was missing. The most glaring example was that my parents did not, according to 35 to 40 years of tradition, blast “The Messiah” on Christmas Eve after I went to bed. Only then, as I lay there in silence, did I realize how much of my anticipation, glee,and general Christmas Eve-ishness is tied up in hearing the strains of that piece.
Music. Emotion. Memories. It’s the stuff that dreams are made of. And blogs.

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December 30, 2009 at 9:59 pm
Car
did you think Up in the Air was good? I saw it yesterday also thought it needed a better ending
December 31, 2009 at 11:23 am
mamakitt
I really liked it — and I could never watch it again. At least, that’s the conclusion I came to as I drove away.
But I find that I keep thinking about it. Plus George Clooney — it is so ridiculous to find him so dreamy, but I do despite myself.
How would you have ended it? Not to wander into spoiler territory …
January 5, 2010 at 8:50 pm
brook
This is truly inspiring. Barbara Kingsolver will be presenting writers’ workshops at the San Miguel Writers Conference in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico February 19-23. I just signed up. It looks like a rare opportunity to meet her. Are you going?
January 5, 2010 at 10:21 pm
Car
I thought he should have confronted her in front of her family again made her feel the way he felt. I just thought he took it like a wuss. Instead of showing any emotion he was just going on like nothing…and then it ended just thought the audience deserved more closure. I think this actually will make a better play than a movie if they ever do it.
January 7, 2010 at 1:26 pm
mamakitt
I think that whole element of her life, that whole piece of the film, just didn’t fit at all. It was too easy, and presented as too complicated. Boo.
I liked the ending though. Reminded me a teensy bit of “Away We Go.” Another wide-open ending. Used to hate that device but it’s grown on me.
January 8, 2010 at 4:55 pm
Car
ya away we go is ten times better than up in the air totally agree